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Less is more:

Holger: I heard “thinkyness” from Ralph ❤️ during a Zoom call.

Thinking itself is not a problem; it only gets confused and restless when we are misidentified, when we mix up “me” and “I am”.

The sense of personal doership and attachment to outcome is the root of all suffering. Once we see/feel/allow the me-chanism we call “normal”, unhappiness loses its audience.

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  1. Perhaps something about: “I can’t be enlightened, I don’t live in a cave”? 😁 And/Or I can’t be Awakened, I…

  2. Beautiful! “I am that, living as this”. Less is more? I still feel the wish to be able to use…

  3. Hi Holger. Thanks for sharing your website and article during the meeting. Coincidentally, I have been recently contemplating the phrase,…

  4. I am is unencumbered, direct, crystalline (as in crystal clear) and joyful. I am somebody is convoluted, complex, complicated and…

  5. Being is not something you do, it is what you are. Being somebody, is something you do. What you are…

  6. There is peace in just mentally saying I am and allowing just a moment of rest in our day. May…

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